@adrian Just found your take on Aftersun, a movie that definitely stimulated discussion about what it was “about”. I loved what you wrote:

“It’s a story about how our attempts to understand and remember our loved ones, even aided by documentary evidence, will always be a series of snapshots, flashes of light in the dark, always coloured by who we are today, and yet always worthwhile, being fuelled by loss, and by love.”

I felt it was exemplary in this respect, and keyed into my own feelings of loss and love when I remember my parents.